that “thirsty” dude hitting you up and checking up on you all the time is probably the dude that actually cares about you.
Oh shut the fuck up girls have no obligation to date guys just because they show basic kindness towards them, stop guilting girls into liking you back
Or maybe he’s that dude that poopoos all your life decisions because he thinks he knows what’s best for you. Constantly complains about things in your life that he knows shit all about. Continually pushes the boundaries of your friendship and makes you uncomfortable after you’ve told him you don’t like it. And eventually tells you to fuck off because if you’re not sleeping with him, you’re not worth his time.